Who rock this better between iyanya and praiz

Well as for me i think its praiz...... What are your views guys?

[photos of Okon goes to altar]:comic actor Ime Bishop umoh marries

Okon goes to the altar...:-). Comic actor Ime Bishop Umoh married his boo Idara Saviour yesterday Saturday October 19th in Uyo, Akwa Ibom state. Congrats to them. See more photos after the cut..

IMB exclusive: Obafemi Martins and Balotelli's sister welcome son

Ace footballer Obafemi Martins has welcomed his third child from his third baby mama. Abigail Barwuah, the older sister of Italian footballer Mario Balotelli gave birth to a baby boy on Wednesday October 16th in Italy.

25 year old Abigail, who has been dating Obafemi since 2012, lost the first pregnancy we all reported last year. She was about four months pregnant when she was in Nigeria with Obafemi in December 2012 but lost the baby and got pregnant again almost immediately.

The never-before-married Obafemi has a son with an African chick he dated in Italy many years ago, he also has a 3 and a half year old son
 with a white chick he dated while playing in the UK and now a son with Abigail. Father of all nation. Hehe. Congrats to Abigail and Obafemi!

IMB exclusive: Jeta & Mbong Amata have separated after almost 10 years together

For all the fans of Jeta and Mbong Amata, I am about to break your hearts. The prolific movie director and his beautiful actress wife of five years Mbong Amata, 28, have separated. They have actually been separated for about a year now but y'all are just hearing about it. And from what I gathered Jeta and Mbong didn't fight, they just decided to let each other go.

Jeta met Mbong when she was only 16 years old in Calabar in 2001 during a movie audition. He waited for her to mature and they started dating when she turned 18 two years later. In 2008, they welcomed a daughter, that same year, Jeta married Mbong. They later moved from their base in Abuja to Los Angeles so Jeta could work on his movie projects.

Continue to read why they broke up...so heartbreaking for such a young couple and maybe there's a lesson to be learnt here...

Here's what I heard happened between them. Mbong met Jeta when she was so young, married him and became a mother in her early twenties. She is a former beauty queen (Miss Akwa Ibom 2003) and her dream was to be an actress. Jeta didn't mind his wife being an actress but he didn't want her featuring in Nollywood movies, so he restricted her. Mbong, some of you may have noticed, only featured in Jeta's movies. And because she met Jeta so young, Mbong didn't get a chance to date other men, never partied and until they separated, never earned a living on her own. She relied on Jeta for everything. 

When they moved to the US, it became a little worse for Mbong. She became lonely and instead of being the star actress she's always dreamed of, she became a housewife, caring for Jeta and their five year old daughter. Mbong became resentful and left Jeta in 2011 and returned to Nigeria. Jeta went after her and they reconciled after Jeta promised to give her a bit more space to pursue her dreams. 

Jeta tried to live up to his promise, but as an African man, just couldn't compromise much and so last year Mbong wanted out of the marriage and Jeta let her go. Mbong and Jeta have been living separately in Los Angeles for about a year now. When I asked if there was any hope for reconciliation, my source told me 'it's only a matter of time before they file for divorce. They have moved on and the love is no longer there. Mbong is very happy now that she can do whatever she wants without a husband to stop her or tell her what she can or can't do"

I've known Jeta Amata for a long time, since the 90's in fact and so before writing this I reached out to him to get his own side of the story, and because we are friends, Jeta opened up to me.

He confirmed that they have indeed separated & partly blamed himself for the break up. He told me;
"Mbong is an amazing mother, an incredible wife...all the time we were together she would never let any other person cook my food...she was faithful and good to me and gave me the best gift in the world, our beautiful daughter. If I didn't cage her so much maybe we would still be together. I stole her youth and didn't let her live her dream so it was better to let her go and find new adventures. She's happy and so am I. Despite the fact that we are no longer together, we are still good friends. She even lives close to me here in LA. Things are great between us and I'm happy to see her happy."Since the separation Mbong has featured in two Nollywood movies, one of them is Forgetting June produced by Emem Isong, which she came back to Nigeria to shoot. She also revealed her sexy bikini body some months back. Y'all didn't know she was a single woman then...pic below...

As for Jeta, I heard he now has a new girlfriend. Jeta is dating Australian actress Viva Bianca, best known for her role as Ilithyia in Spartacus (Pic below)
Viva is starring in Jeta's new movie project - Road to Redemption, which also features Ghanaian actress, Yvonne Nelson and pop star, Akon. Jeta and Viva have been dating for many months now and were even spotted in Las Vegas recently. When I asked Jeta about his relationship with Viva, he didn't want to talk about it.

And that my friends, is the end of the story. Wishing Jeta and Mbong Amata the very best.

Why Nigerian Students Must Demand An End To Ongoing ASUU Strike Now!!

It is no longer news that the Academic Staff Union of Universities (ASUU) has been on strike for almost four months now. I have done an empirical analysis of what Nigerian students as well as lecturers will gain and lose as a result of the current struggle. Read, digest and see if we need to support them any longer or not. 

GAIN OF LECTURERS 1. Increased allowances for project supervision, call duty, extra hours worked, hazards, etc. 
2. Payment of salaries and entitlements for the several months in which they didn’t work! 
3. Those schools that did not partake in the struggle e.g UNILORIN and RSUST will also benefit from the infrastructure funds and the earned allowances (needless to say UNILORIN almost began sharing the almost one (1) billion they got for earned allowances last week) 

NEGATIVE EFFECT OF THE STRIKE ON LECTURERS 
1. Delay in obtaining Masters and PhD’s for those still doing their postgraduate studies. 
2. I cant fathom out any. Please, help me if you have been able to think of any other one. 

GAINS OF THE STRUGGLE FOR STUDENTS 
1. The funds released for infrastructure will be used to meet the immediate needs of our schools. Some will use the funds to construct more hostels, some will use it to equip libraries, provide internet connectivity, build laboratories and furnish them, amongst others. These are projects that will aid learning and ultimately benefit students. 

2. Those that will later join the academia and become Professors among us will also have the benefit of retiring at 70 years. 

3. Those that will join the academia among us will also enjoy the special allowances that the current struggle will benefit lecturers in the years to come. 

NEGATIVE EFFECT OF THIS STRUGGLE FOR STUDENTS. 
1. BATTERED ACADEMIC CALENDAR Our Schools have lost a semester which cannot be made up for. Most schools were either in their second semester of the 2012/2013 session or were rounding up their first semester exams when the strike began. This will result in an abridged semester and most schools will finish their 2012/2013 session in 2014. 

What this implies is that those that wrote the 2013 UTME and will be offered admission (most schools have not released their admission list) might not resume until probably March next year (when another UTME will be on the way) This will inadvertently result in late resumption of the 2013/2014 academic session which is likely to finish early 2015 (provided ASUU does not embark on another strike action before then). Academic calendar is thus in tatters!

2. DELAY IN THE RELEASE OF ADMISSION LIST. 
It is pertinent to note that a lot of prospective University students do not know their fate regarding admission as a result of the strike action. 

3. LAW STUDENTS CANNOT GO TO LAW SCHOOL TILL NEXT YEAR OCTOBER. 
2012/2013 Final year Law students must be cursing down their throats as the strike has barred them from progressing to the Law school this year. When the dust of this strike settles, they will have to wait till next year October before they can go to the Law school. This is not the only problem because Law graduate of next year 2014 might not be able to go to the Law school till 2015. One year wasted!. 

One might say two (2) sets will be merged but those in the know-how will tell you that the Law school has a quota for each school. Are we seeing the imminent crises? 

4.FIERCE COMPETITION FOR 2014 NYSC BATCH ‘B’. 
As a result of this strike action, most public Universities (except probably UNILORIN) cannot present Students for November 2013, BATCH ‘C’ service year and with the look of things, public Universities might not be able to meet up with February 2014 BATCH ‘A’ Service year thus resulting in a fierce competition by students to be mobilised for service next year June BATCH ‘B’. What this means is that some students who were supposed to go for service in 2013 will be deferred to November, 2014 and some till February 2015. Are you calculating the time wasted? 

5. SOME PROJECT STUDENTS MIGHT HAVE TO START ALL OVER 
2012/2013 Final year students of most schools who were working on their projects (Science-related) when the strike action began might have to start again because the results obtained then might not be tenable again. This results in waste of scarce resources, time and energy.

Having considered the gains and pains of the current struggle, Nigerian Students can now decide if they wish to continue supporting ASUU or reconsider their support. We can decide if the gain of the struggle outweighs the sacrifice we are paying or otherwise. If strikes could rescue the Nigerian Education system, then our Institutions should by now be one of the best in the world. If ASUU has been on strike for 30 months in the past 10 years and we are still where we are today, then it means No weapon of strike fashioned against the Pharoahs in Abuja can work. 

Government has made concessions, we will only be deceiving ourselves if we think Jonathan will implement every bit of that agreement. Its not realistic!..let us be factual and move forward. When ASUU started this struggle, they had popular support not just because it was a Tradition for them to garner sympathy of Nigerians but because we felt it was an aberration for them to still be on an agreement that Government signed in 2009 after an almost four months strike action. 

But if after a Hundred days of protests, demonstration, rallies and negotiations, we are still at this stage, then it doesnt look like its going to get better. The Truth is ASUU is already losing public sympathy because the collateral effect of their strike is so harsh on students.

Remember, in an industrial dispute, you dont win 100%, you win some and concede some ( as corroborated by Bishop Matthew Hassan Kukah, Archbishop Kaigama, Tolu Ogunlesi and a host of others). 

In my own Opinion, the strike doesnt makes sense any longer and ASUU should just call it off to avoid being termed 'stubborn fellows' in the face of the Nigerian Public. 

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Reverend Sister Gives Birth In Convent, Kills Baby

A 26-year-old woman studying to becoming a Catholic nun smothered her newborn son to death because she didn’t want anyone to find out she had been sexually active. 

Police in DC (USA) saySosefina Amoagave birth to the boy on October 10, 2013 in her room at the Little Sisters of the Poor elderly care facility. Afraid the nuns would hear the newborn’s cries and discover she lied about sexual activity, police say Amoa told investigators she smothered him. 

The hospital called police. A day later she and a nun took his body to a hospital in a small, black luggage bag. She allegedly told detectives she had heard the child cry for two to three minutes and then, worried that someone would hear; she covered the baby’s mouth with a wool garment. 

When she removed it, the child wasn’t breathing. She then ‘wrapped the child in Samoan garb, placed the child on her bed…remained in her room’ until the next morning. Amoa was charged on Wednesday with first-degree murder after the death was ruled a homicide by asphyxiation.She told police she did not know she was pregnant. 

According to the arrest warrant, she ‘began Religious Formation, which included religious classes, doctrine, and prayer life’. The 26-year-old arrived from Samoa on October 5, 2013 and was considered a postulant – someone who wants to be admitted to the order. The Little Sisters of the Poor says in a statement that they’re praying for everyone involved. 
“We all feel this is a very tragic situation. We are just praying for everyone involved. Now that it is in the hands of the legal system, we will not be providing any further comment.

Nigerian woman presses in uk court over lost of job

A devout Christian who lost her job after refusing to work on Sunday is mounting a fresh court appeal this week.
Celestina Mba, 58, lost a previous case after a judge ruled that not all Christians observed the Sabbath as religious.
But she is now taking her case to the Court of Appeal and if successful could establish the right of Christians to refuse to work on a Sunday.
Mba, a children’s care worker, will argue that every employer has a duty to ‘reasonably accommodate’ religious beliefs in the workplace.
The legal challenge comes after the European Court of Human Rights ruled that Britain had failed to protect the freedom of Nadia Eweida, a British Airways employee who was suspended after refusing to remove a cross at work.
Mba’s lawyer, Paul Diamond, is expected to argue that the ruling in Eweida’s favour extends to religious days as well as items of clothing.
Under the new ruling the baptist mother-of-three only has to prove that she herself holds the belief, not that it is a general rule which all Christians observe.
Shopworkers are already guaranteed the right to refuse to work Sundays, but other businesses must prove a legitimate need to force people to work.
If the court rules in Mba’s favour it could also grant Muslims the right to take Friday off, and Jews to be excused on Friday and Saturday.
If successful, campaigners hope the Court of Appeal ruling would mark a rare victory for Christian causes in British courts
Mba, who is now working a new job in south west London which allows her to take Sundays off, quit her previous job in 2010 after a row broke out.
Between 2007 when she was first employed and 2008 Mba claims her employers, Brightwell children’s home, were happy to accommodate her request after she mentioned it at her interview.
Mba’s case has be launched after Nadia Eweida won her case in the European Court of Human Rights over the right to wear a cross at work
Mba’s case has be launched after Nadia Eweida won her case in the European Court of Human Rights over the right to wear a cross at work
However in 2008 she was told she would have to work, and began getting other staff members to cover for her, until she was called to a disciplinary hearing in 2010 after which she left.
During the case she said: ‘I was willing to work at any unsocial time of shift in order to preserve my Sundays, I was prepared to work nights, or Saturdays.’
She argued that she doesn’t just go to church on Sundays, but spends the whole day caring for vulnerable people in her community as part of her church’s ministerial team.
The order to remember the Sabbath day and keep it holy is the fourth of the ten commandments.
John Deegan, Mba’s manager who also gave evidence at the time, told the tribunal he did not believe she had specified she could not work Sundays.
Christian campaigners hope this week’s case could provide a welcome victory for a faith they feel has been overlooked when it comes to sensitive issues.
Andrea Williams, founder of the Christian Legal Centre, told The Sunday Times: ‘The courts have acted to protect the kara bracelet (worn by Sikhs), Afro cornrow haircuts, the wearing of a hijab and a Muslim’s right to fast, but have refused to grant protection to the cross of the Christian Sunday.
In January this year Nadia Eweida praised Jesus after winning her seven year long appeal after she was suspended from her job as a British Airways air stewardess when a customer complained that they found a cross she was wearing offensive.
The ruling, which was praised by David Cameron, said that a uniform dress code didn’t supersede her right to express her faith.
Read more:  Daily Mail

I Feel Like Squeezing My Breast When Listening To Jesse Jagzz

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The Baddo is back on top of our charts with new single, "Yemi My Lover". 
Check out who else made it unto the countdown

BUBBLING UNDER
Kcee ft Wizkid "Pull Over"
Nosa "Always Pray for You"

NUMBER 5
Starboy ft LAX and Wizkid "Caro"

NUMBER 4
Moses ft Eva Alordiah "Love Letter"

NUMBER 3
Flavour "Ada Ada"

NUMBER 2
Davido "Skelewu"

NUMBER 1
Olamide "Yemi My Lover"

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Mysterious bees reportedly invaded a church in Odo-Ayo street, Ondo town, sending the worshipers who had gathered for service, scampering.
It was gathered that the bees stormed the church and a house beside it, in their numbers and operated for some minutes, thereby making the worshipers and occupants of the building to run for their lives.
Narrating the incident, one of the victims, Mr Olatubosun Olafusi said he was carrying out some household chores when he saw his co-tenants running helter-skelter to escape the sting of the mysterious bees.
He quickly to to his heels, seeing the movement of the bees towards his apartment. He said he left his house for a safer place from where he was able to catch a glimpse of the bees as they moved into the house in large number.
He said, “I later noticed from where I was standing and watching the scene how the bees later moved to the church building which was very close to the house.
“However I was very surprised to notice that rather than moving to another house after invading the church, the angry bees left the area after about 15 minutes” he narrated.
According to him, he didn’t return to his apartment because he was afraid the bees might return. He rather sought refuge in another apartment in the area.
Also speaking on the incident, a woman on the same street who pleaded anonymity expressed her concern over the invasion.
She described the incident as strange, adding that it wasn’t the first time such would occur in the area.

“Coffee Or Me, My Husband Is Busy Making Money” Maheeda Bare A$$ On Instagram - See more at: http://www.naijaurban.com/coffee-husband-making-money-maheeda-instagram

Maheeda posted this picture few hours ago, and when a fan ask her if her husband is following her on twitter, she replied that her man is just too busy making money. she needs another man.

I Don’t Mind Showing My Body Parts But Not Nude – Actress

Ella Mensah isn’t exactly a household name in Nigeria, but one to reckon with in Ghana, where she plies her trade. She was recently in Nigeria to shoot a film where she met a Vanguard reporter for a chat.

In a space of five years the sexy Thespian has had more than 30 movies in her kitty. In this chat, the sexy Ella talks about herself and what makes her tick. Excerpts:

Tell us about yourself?

I’m Ella Mensah, a Ghanaian actress based in South Africa and Ghana. I’m doing some movie shooting right now in Nigeria. I came here for the first time on October 1st last year, and since then, I have about 30 movies. I’ve been here for a year, but I come and go. So far, I’m loving it.

What has your acting experience been like?

So far, so good. A lot of challenges here and there. When I came back , I had a baby. As a mum, I was a bit fat and it was difficult to get some roles. I had to work on myself, I stopped breastfeeding and all those motherhood things. It took me a year to come back after that three-year break. Now I love every minute of it. It’s like I’m living my dream. This is all I wanted and it’s perfect for me.

Was your mum a single mother?

Yes, I met my dad for the first time when I was nineteen years old. That’s why we don’t have that kind of very close relationship. It was also why I tried to live his dream, be a journalist for him because I wanted him to love me. But I realised that it wasn’t worth it, my mum’s love was okay for me. So what I really plan to do with my team is to open an NGO for single mothers.

Are you married?

I’m not married and I’m not single. I’m in a relationship. Though I’m no longer with my son’s dad. My son and his dad are in South Africa now.

What physical attribute would you say is your selling point?

(Laughs) I heard that word “selling point” for the first time in Nigeria. Most of my friends say it’s my lips and I think it’s true. Then my height, my face and my ass. People are attracted to different things. Personally, I think it’s my face, height and lips.

Would you act nude for any reason?

No, I don’t see why I should. Fine, I don’t mind showing certain parts of my body, especially when playing a seductive role. I can wear a bum short or maybe a net top. But I’ll never go nude, not even for ten million dollars!

10 Kinky And Crazy Sex Tips for First Timers

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If you're bored of plain vanilla sex and are looking for something kinky and crazy, you've come to the right place.

You will see how to dismiss the initial awkwardness and have an absolutely crazy and wild time with your partner. So, bring out the blindfolds, handcuffs and gags, it's time for bondage sex.

Talk dirty - The sudden transformation from demure diva to saucy sex kitten will not only be awkward for you, but for him as well. So to avoid the shock and awkwardness, start by talking dirty. It's a great way to test waters and find out more about his fantasies.

Play safe - Kinky sex can be a little too much to take sometimes, physically and emotionally. So, besides being 100 per cent sure about it, you have to make sure you do it with someone you completely trust. If there's bondage and struggles involved, then make sure you don't go overboard. Don't forget to keep codes, which you can use when you think things are getting out of hand.

Blinding love - Blindfolds are a good option for beginners as they are not as naughty as handcuffs and gags. And since you are not able to see, it helps drop inhibitions. If you're blindfolding him, start by lightly scratching, licking and kissing in unexpected places to build the element of surprise.

Start light - Before you move on to kinkier things like ropes and whips, keep things simple with padded handcuffs and blindfolds. Only when you're really comfortable with kinky sex, move on from gentle to hardcore.

Dress up! - Kinky is not limited to only sex toys and kinky items; you can bring some fun and style to your bedroom with feathers, masks, latex, garters and high heels. Be creative and unique. You can ask him about his fantasies and try incorporating them in the bedroom.

No pain, no gain - A little pain during sex can cause a lot of pleasure. It doesn't have to be hard spankings from Christian Grey, but a light nibble on the nipple or a single spank at the right moment, and a little bit of biting and hair-pulling can totally turn things on.

Music is my aeroplane - The right kind of music can help you lighten up and set you in the right mood. So, if you're feeling a bit nervous and edgy, just put on some sexy music that will help you focus. Note: Not everyone enjoys music during sex, some people find it distracting. If you feel music is ruining the moment, shut it off immediately.

Tie up - If you and your guy are new to bondage, don't freak him out by suddenly removing the handcuffs. Seductively get on top of him and slowly whisper that you like having him at your mercy, and then slowly bind his hands in the sexiest manner.

Naughty and nice - If you're being the dominant one, start by playing sweet and sensual. Incorporate a lot of kissing and caressing. It can be quite a turn on to be handled with so much love in a kinky setup. As things start to heat up, show him your bad side.

The waiting game - What makes kinky sex so intense is the aspect of withholding pleasure from your partner. If he's tied up, build up the tease by slowly stripping in front of him and letting him watch you touch yourself. That will drive him crazy as he can't do anything about it.

Nigeria Advances On FIFA Rankings

The Super Eagles gained three spots from last month's ranking following their victory against Ethiopia in Sunday's World Cup first leg play-off in Addis Ababa.

The Eagles have had a topsy-turvy year rising to 28th position in May but falling down to 36th in September.

Their victory over Ethiopia has now pushed them up three places on the rankings.

Meanwhile, Ethiopia dropped two spots to finish 95 ahead of their return leg against Nigeria in Calabar next month.

Ivory Coast continue to be the top ranked African side moving up two places to 17 this month.

Ghana also move up one spot to finish in 23rd position while Algeria dropped four spots to finish in 32nd position just ahead of Nigeria.

Spain remain the leading country in the world followed by Germany, Argentina, Colombia and Belgium in the top five.

Asuu rejects new offer from FG

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Varsity teachers remained adamant last night, saying their strike would go on, despite the government's shifting of its position. The strike has been on for four months.

More cash has been pledged for projects on the campuses. Besides, the earned allowances due to the teachers have been increased from the initial N30 billion offer, which the Academic Staff Union of Universities (ASUU) rejected. The teachers are insisting on the 2009 agreement, which they say President Goodluck Jonathan was part of. Besides, they say, they do not trust the government.

According to a circular by the Vice Chancellor of the Federal University, Otuoke, Bayelsa State, Prof. Bolaji Aluko, to the staff of the school, quoted yesterday by Sahara Reporters, the government has pledged to spend N200 billion on the universities in the 2014 budget and the same amount annually for the next three to four years.

This is in addition to the N100 billion already made available this year, but which ASUU has rejected.

The government has also increased to N40 billion, as a first installment, funds for the payment of earned allowances to the striking lecturers - an improvement from the N30 billion previously released.

On the earned allowances, Aluko said: "Government will top it up with further releases once universities are through with the disbursement of this new figure of N40 million. So, Vice-Chancellors are urged to expedite this disbursement within the shortest possible time using guiding templates that have been sent by the CVC," the circular said.

Aluko said the latest development followed meetings on September 19 and Oct 11 of representatives of the Association of Vice-Chancellors of Nigerian Universities, led by its Chairman, Prof. Hamisu of Abubakar Tafawa Balewa University (ATBU) and ASUU representatives led by its President, Dr.Nasir Fagge, with Vice-President Namadi Sambo and Minister of Education Nyesome Wike.

A source in the Ministry of Education last night also confirmed that the meeting took place.

"But the government decided to leave the announcement of the decision to the ASUU chiefs," the source said.

According to National Treasurer Dr. Ademola Aremu, ASUU is not making any new demand, but a mere implementation of an agreement. He pointed out that the Memorandum of Understanding (MOU) signed by both parties in 2009 stated that the government would commit N1.5 trillion to the system in three years.

He said: "Even if the Federal Government made that promise, it would be a unilateral repudiation of the 2009 agreement. By now, the government should have injected N500 billion. That amounts to N100 billion in 2012 and N400 billion in the current year.

"As a matter of fact, any new commitment from the Federal Government is belated. Implementation of the agreement ought to have started before this year. I don't think there is any way we can trust this government, going by its past behaviour on this issue.

"The mandate from our principal as at the last time we met was that we won't end the strike until the agreement is fully implemented.

"We do not need promises again. What we need now is actual implementation. What if they do not release the funds again after making the promise?

"It was this same Mr President that mid-wifed the agreement in 2009 when he was the Vice President. The MoU was in his custody. He studied the agreement well before asking then President Umaru Yar'Adua to sign it. We can't trust this government.

Why Do Churches Have Different Doctrines And Denominations? UNEDITED:

Why do we have so many different doctrines in churches today? Is the biblenot one? Is God not one?.

Some will say pay tithe others will say no need. Some will say ladies can wear trouser others will say ladies should not wear trouser. Some will say, ladies must cover their hair others will say ladies should not cover their hair in church. Some will say, there is hell other will say there is nothing like hell fire. Some will say God is three in one others will say God is only one. Some will say u can pray through mary and jesus others will say pray only through jesus christ. Some will say fast others will say no need to fast. Some will say the earth shall be turned into paradise other will say there is no such thing, that we will all leave earth to heaven in the last day. Some will say give your first fruit offering other will say there no need for that anymore. Some will say we should worship God only on saturday which is the sabbath day others will say it is on sunday we should worship God. Some will say no christmas others will say there is christmas. Some will say christians can marry more than one wife other will say they cannot. Some say you can wear earing and fix nails others will say you must not wear earing and fix nail(for ladies). Some say you can do blood transfusion and take drugs others say you cannot do blood transfusion and take drugs that all you need is to apply faith. etc.

Somebody tell me, is this not confusion?. Hw can we know the truth now. Or who have a clear answers to the above different doctrines peddles by different denominations today. I wonder sha!

God help me o.

Non-s*xual Intimacy: 3 Reasons Husbands Should Initiate It More Often

This may be the first time you have heard the term used, but trust it is a principle that most (if not all) women embrace. It involves any kind of intimacy that isn’t centered around s*x. It can include making time to talk, cuddle, engage in fun activities together, and so on. Non-s*xual intimacy is essential in a marriage, and here are some reasons why husbands need to make it happen more often.
1. It makes her feel more valued.
If a man views his wife as just some glorified assistant, or s*x toy…he done messed up. If he creates an atmosphere that makes her feel like the only time he wants to touch her is when he wants s*x…he done messed up. The things I mentioned will make a woman feel less valued in a man’s life. That is why non-s*xual intimacy is so important.
It shows her that you enjoy her presence. It makes her feel like you hold her in higher regard. She will feel more secure, and it will pour the type of love and emotional fulfillment that she needs. When a woman starts to feel like she is just some interchangeable piece in her man’s life, that can kick open the door to plenty of issues. Make her feel valued, and give her the time and attention that truly speaks to her heart.
2. It can be great foreplay.
If You’re Her Husband, foreplay isn’t just something you do right before having s*x. It is something a husband should put into practice way in advance to assist in the s*xual build-up within his wife. Non-s*xual intimacy plays right into that approach. When a husband shows his wife that he desires her outside the bedroom, it can cause her to have a greater desire for him in the bedroom (or anywhere else they don’t mind getting down). In many cases it can really turn a woman on, and it can help eliminate any possible resentment that comes from feeling like her husband just views her as a piece of meat to poke. It will also allow her to feel more comfortable and open with her husband sexually, which is a huge key to creating great s*x for both the wife and her husband.
3. It can help you grow closer together.
When people mainly focus on s*x, it can hinder their ability to nurture a greater foundation in their relationship; the ability to enjoy each other’s presence, and be friends as well as lovers. Non-s*xual intimacy will do plenty in helping a couple bond and grow closer together. It will allow for more time to be put into getting in tune with each other, connecting on a deeper level, and growing closer together in that marriage. Because it helps in the areas of emotional and s*xual fulfillment, it will allow both parties to get what they need, and therefore create a much happier marriage. Neglecting non-s*xual intimacy can drive a huge wedge between husband and wife, and that will only lead to negativity taking over that marriage. The significance of bonding continuously in marriage is huge, and certainly not something any husband should overlook.
Non-s*xual intimacy may seem foreign to some, and there may be men that do not think it’s that important. I’m here to tell you that holding on to that perspective will likely lead you into an unhappy and unfulfilled marriage. A husband should be mindful of what his wife needs, and understand that what specifically speaks to her heart can vary from other women. So talk to her, as well as experiment with some things. See what works for her, and then keep it going. Providing a wife with non-s*xual intimacy will put a smile on her face, and in turn it will make it even easier for her to make her husband smile as well.

SPORTS:I Want To Be Bigger Than Yekini – Emenike Emmanuel Emenike has said that Rashidi Yekini is a tough act to follow but he hopes he could make a bigger impact in the Eagles. The Fenerbache striker, who has been widely labelled ‘The New Yekini’ said Yekini was a legend and that he still has a lot to do to match the records if the name ‘Emenike’ will be bigger for the Eagles.

You scored a brace to move Nigeria closer to Brazil 2014 World Cup, how was the feeling before the goals?
Emenike: The feeling was positive, I didn’t feel pressure before or during the game because I know the game will only last for 90 minutes and during that time anything could happen. I don’t play with pressure and will not start now. I know there was pressure from the Ethiopians due to their bad pitch and all sorts of tricks to beat us, but I grew up to be optimistic.
I was so sure that we couldn’t lose that game and the worst that could have happen would have been a draw. I was waiting for the opportunity at goal and I was calm enough to score. Mind you I can’t take the glory for that victory it was a collective one, we all fought for the victory.
How did you feel on a personal note to score two goals in such a crucial game?
I feel good sincerely, but I think we need to work harder for the return leg and quickly forget the victory in Addis Ababa. As a striker, when you score and your team win, you will definitely get the usual applause and be happy. I am excited because we conquered our fears. The weather was another big factor that worked against the Eagles.
How was the team able to cope?
The weather was an issue, but we put our mind off it and prepared for the battle. The victory was the reward of our hard work. We were lucky because the weather stayed in our favour to an extent. We all knew what will happen in Ethiopia, we knew we will be facing another side of the Ethiopians and we met it the way it was planned, but as a good team, we survived all.
What can you say about Ethiopia?
They are a good side. They gave us a scare, they were everywhere and determined for revenge but we went, we saw and we conquered. We played against a good side in the Ethiopians. We knew that right from the Nations Cup and they have improved.
You have featured at the Africa Cup of Nations and now how do you feel that you are close to playing in the biggest competition in the world, the World Cup?
I am glad to have played in the Nations Cup and won. I am dreaming of playing in my first World Cup for Nigeria. That will be the first time I will be at the World Cup and to get to play in Brazil, where they are crazy about football, would be a dream come true. I missed the Confederations Cup due to injury. I started nursing the dream to play in World Cup since 1994. I was a very small boy then, but could still remember how the older boys around followed the tournament and were mentioning the players’ names, praising them.
Ever since then, I have wanted to also be praised for playing at the World Cup. It would be great to play in Brazil. My mother started telling me how she wanted me to make her proud when I started playing as a professional player due to the love she has for the Super Eagles and I have held on to this. Now, I will keep working hard to see my dream comes true next year.
Were you under pressure while you could not get goals for the Eagles at the start of your international career?
There was a lot of talk here and there, but I didn’t allow that to weigh me down when I was not getting the goals for Nigeria because I knew they will come. I kept working hard and resolved to give my best because I always knew I will score goals for Nigeria and it has now materialised.
You have been banging in the goals since your return to the team after the injury layoff at AFCON, what is the secret?
God is my secret because he always answers my prayers and grants my desires. He knows what I want and the best time to do it for me, so I am grateful to him. Aside that, I see the World Cup as a big business for Nigeria, the fans are eager to see us getting the ticket which is a great one for us as footballers. The fans have so much confidence in you and believe you will get the goals for the Eagles?
I feel honoured, but it is a team work. I am only living my dreams and it’s my pleasure that Nigeria are now closer to Brazil 2014. We will complete the job in Calabar next month.
Nigerians are celebrating the World Cup ticket already, should they be doing so even though there is still a return leg match?
It is to be expected for the fans to celebrate such a victory because it was away from home, but we the players are not thinking that way. I am sure the ticket is within the reach now. Our fans should know that we as footballers always want to win and they should always have it in their mind that football is all about ups and downs. Today, we make them happy, but tomorrow could be different but with their support, we could always right the wrong.
How did you see your combination with brown Ideye this time around again?
I have always been confident about any player I play alongside. I try as much as possible to study their style and adapt to it. Apart from Brown, and I can play with anybody provided there is a good understanding between us up front. I have so much confidence in my team mates because without them, there is no team and there won’t be progress but when we understand ourselves better anybody can score the goals. Brown is a top player any day, he has the skills and he knows what to do and when to do it.
You have been touted by many as the new Rashidi Yekini in the Eagles, what can you say on this?
Rashidi Yekini’s shoes are still too big for me to wear, I am only doing what I know best for my fatherland and I have not done anything yet. I still have a lot to do to get to the height reached by such a legend. The fans have to wait before I can accept that tag but for now, I am thinking about making the name ‘Emenike’ bigger than the late legend Rashidi Yekini, but I won’t rush my race. I will keep delivering when I am given the chance to serve my country. Despite the defeat in Addis Ababa, the Ethiopians are still very much confident of getting Brazil 2014 ticket. They are saying that because it is football where anything can happen, but we won’t allow that to happen. I don’t believe in exchanging words on a match that has not been played.
I can vouch for my team mates but I think we must see every game like war. Ethiopia are very good and they will be coming here with other tricks. So we shouldn’t see this victory as the end of road. I can tell you that Calabar game will be tougher for us than Addis Ababa. We will be careful and get ready for another big business in Calabar.
You have played six games for Fenerbahce and yet to score a goal, are you under pressure to score goals?
No, as I said earlier, I never play under pressure. I am sure my goals will soon start rolling in for Fenerbahce. I am just doing my best for my team. I will soon make the fans happy with my goals
Source: Vanguard